A Revelation

If you’ve been reading along, you know that anger is an expression of pain that doesn’t wish to appear vulnerable.


Another thing I’ve come to know is that yelling at someone demeans them so the yeller feels bigger, badder, better, more powerful etc.


I’m sorry to admit that I was taught as a child that yelling was the only way to get what you want. I used that technique for many years without understanding the damage it did to others. I am now so acutely aware that I withdraw at the first sign.


I wish I could teach everyone to use their words and their tone ca..

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